Famous Lovers #
Mythical Tales
Orpheus and Eurydice #
Orpheus had skill and respect for his music. At one such gathering of humans and beasts that his eyes fell on a wood nymph, called Eurydice, she was beautiful and shy. She had been drawn to Orpheus enamoured by his voice and such was the spell of beauty in music and appearance that neither could cast their eyes off each other.
When she dies of a snake-bite, Orpheus decided to go to Underworld and try to get his wife back.
Orpheus said why he was there, in a voice both mellifluous and disquieting. He played his lyre and sang out to King Hades and Queen Persephone that Eurydice was returned to him.
Hades openly wept, Persephone’s heart melted and even Cerberus, the gigantic three-headed hound guarding the entry to the underworld, covered his many ears with his paws and howled in despair.
Hades promised to this desperate man that Eurydice would follow him to the Upper World, as long as he did not look back while his wife was still in the dark, for that would undo everything he hoped for. He should wait for Eurydice to get into the light before he looked at her.
The moment he stepped on the world of the living, he turned his head to hug his wife. Unfortunately, he got only a glimpse of Eurydice before she was once again drawn back into the underworld.
Like Lot’s wife, we must not look back – but look to the future.
Hero and Leander #
Hero, virgin priestess of Aphrodite at Sestos, was seen at a festival by Leander of Abydos; they fell in love, and he swam the Hellespont at night to visit her, guided by a light from her tower. One stormy night the light was extinguished, and Leander was drowned; Hero, seeing his body, drowned herself likewise.
amative - disposed to love; amorous. Amative stems from the Latin verb amāre meaning “to love.” It entered English in the mid-1600s.
There are many Greco-Roman stories about unrequited love and the miseries it can bring. According to the philosopher Aristoxenus (4th century BC), one woman named Harpalyce died of grief after she fell in love with – and was rejected by – a man called Iphiclus.
Troilus and Cressida #
Set during the Trojan War, Troilus and Cressida recounts the love affair of its title characters. Inside the besieged city of Troy, the Trojan prince Troilus is lovesick for Cressida. Cressida is drawn to Troilus, too, and her uncle, Pandarus, brings them together.
In the Greek camp outside, Cressida’s father, Calchas, asks that Cressida be brought to him in return for the help he has given the Greeks. The morning after the lovers’ night together, Cressida is exchanged for a Trojan prisoner and taken to the camp by the Greek warrior Diomedes.The great Trojan warrior Hector, Troilus’s brother, engages in single combat with the Greek Ajax, a fight that ends inconclusively. Hector and Troilus join the Greeks for a feast. Cressida, meanwhile, is seduced by Diomedes.Distraught at Cressida’s betrayal, Troilus fights Diomedes and others. Patroclus, favorite of the Greek warrior Achilles, dies in battle. Achilles fights with and loses to Hector, who is then, on Achilles’s orders, dishonorably slain. Grieving, Troilus and the other Trojans return to Troy. From Folger Shakespeare Library
Tristan and Isolde #
Were principal characters of a famous medieval love-romance, based on a Celtic legend, an archetypal poem.
The young Tristan ventures to Ireland to ask the hand of the princess Isolde for his uncle, King Mark of Cornwall, and, having slain a dragon that is devastating the country, succeeds in his mission. On the homeward journey Tristan and Isolde, by misadventure, drink the love potion prepared by the queen for her daughter and King Mark. Henceforward, the two are bound to each other by an imperishable love.
One day Mark discovers them asleep with a naked sword between them. Soon afterward they make peace with Mark, and Tristan agrees to restore Isolde to Mark and leave the country.
When Tristan is dying Isolde agrees to come, the ship on which she embarks is to have a white sail; if she refuses, a black. His jealous wife, who has discovered his secret, seeing the ship approach on which Isolde is hastening to her lover’s aid, tells him that it carries a black sail. Tristan, turning his face to the wall, dies, and Isolde, arriving too late to save her love, yields up her life in a final embrace. A miracle follows their deaths: two trees grow out of their graves and intertwine their branches so that they can not be parted by any means.
Abelard and Heloise #
Among the most famous lovers of Medieval times, Abelard and Heloise, celebrated their love making by experimenting with unconventional methods. Abelard detailed their irresistible passionate relationship:
We were united first in the dwelling that sheltered our love, and then in the hearts that burned with it.
“Our desires left no stage of lovemaking untried, and if love could devise something new, we welcomed it. We entered on each joy the more because of our previous inexperience and were all the less easily sated”.
Because he was her Philosopher tutor in Paris, and twenty years her senior, her father, took exception when she became pregnant and sought revenge by having Abelard brutally beaten and castrated. Humiliated by the loss of his manhood, the lovers take religious vows as monk and nun; are separated for twenty years, and when they meet again, though the physical aspect of their relationship is no longer possible, declare their eternal love and oneness.
The child was raised in a convent.
Heloise writing 12 years after the separation admits: “Even in sleep I find no respite”. Though brief, the lovers found eternal true love.
John Donne, Ann More #
Sir Thomas Egerton (son of Keeper of Seal Chancellor) appointed Donne as his secretary. Sir Thomas Egerton’s second wife was a sister to Sir George More. They had a 15 year old niece Ann More. John fell madly in love with Ann.
When Sir George found out he was furious and Ann was taken to Surrey. Later John and Ann met secretly and were married in 1601. She was 16 and he 29. Sir George More had John Donne dismissed and imprisoned for two months. John Donne and Ann More lived in poverty for the next 10 yrs dependent on his writing of tracts. This led to Donne’s rueful saying:
“John Donne, Ann Donne, undone.”
During this time Donne wrote much of his serious poetry addressed to her, extolling the power of love above all else.
Ann More gave birth to 12 children 7 surviving her. Ann More died in childbirth in 1617 (27 years old) after which his writing became more sombre and religious - “wholly on heavenly things my mind is set”. He devoted his life to writing the Holy Sonnets.
Keats #
The longing for the presence of an absent lover is the love letter’s key characteristic. In Keats’s first letter to Fanny, this is expressed subtly, through a description of writing on the Isle of Wight. Keats remarks, It would be a lovely place to live, were it not for the “remembrance” of the absent Fanny.
George Eliot - George Henry Lewes #
Excerpts courtesy, of Camilla Nelson, Associate Professor in Media, University of Notre Dame Australia, The Conversation, November 22, 2019
Mary Ann Evans took the pseudonym “George Eliot” because she wanted to be taken seriously as a writer.
Eliot’s reputation has grown steadily in the 200 years since her birth. And her Middlemarch (1871-2) is often claimed to be the greatest novel in the English language.
A ‘great, horse-faced bluestocking’
Born in Nuneaton, Warwickshire, England, on November 22, 1819, the third daughter of Robert and Christiana Evans, Eliot was afforded the sort of education not usually granted to women in this period. She was not considered physically attractive, and her father believed this would severely limit her prospects of marriage.
In 1850, Eliot – then calling herself Marian Evans – moved from Coventry to London, determined to become a writer.
Eliot formed a series of attachments to married men, including Chapman and Herbert Spencer, before meeting the critic George Henry Lewes, with whom she shared a committed, life-long relationship.
Lewes was married to Agnes Jervis, with whom he had three children. Unlike other unconventional literary liaisons of the period, Lewes and Eliot did not keep their relationship a secret.
Like so many other men, Lewes was drawn to the luminosity of Eliot’s intelligence. She had an awesome curiosity, an endless appetite for ideas.
Henry James famously characterised her as “magnificently ugly, deliciously hideous”.
And yet in his snarky, entitled way he also marvelled at his reaction to the force of Eliot’s personality. “Behold me, literally in love with this great horse-faced bluestocking!”
Camilla Nelson
T.S. Eliot, Emily Hale #
Emily Hale was a speech and drama teacher who got to know Eliot in Cambridge, Massachusetts, in 1912, when Eliot attended Harvard University. She was a friend of his cousin.
Eliot’s personal letters to Emily Hale, released in January, 2020, reveal a conflicted, indecicive, socially insecure, buttoned-up private life, surrounded by highly mannered, but gossipy snobby hostesses.
He reveals his pain at her decision to release his letters, as he feels a private man who finds it difficult to write about himself.
He had been unlucky in love. His first unrequited love was meeting Emily Hale at a Harvard Tea Party in 1912.
When he declares his love, he sees no signs of her returning it. He writes:
“I was very immature for my age, timid, inexperienced with gnawing doubt.”
A proposal appears to have been rebuffed, merely because she didn’t appear eagar enough.
Eliot left America for Germany but when war was declared, he went to London where he suddenly married Vivienne Haigh-Wood.
In his many letters to Emily Hale, he repeatedly claims he will never marry any woman but her.
“A couple have to love God more than each other which will make their love for each other more complete”.
Eliot writes his first letter to Emily Hale, attempting to re-ignite a relationship in 1922.
Ten years later, during a year teaching in Harvard in 1934, he and Emily Hale re-ignite their love for each other and write passioned letters for the next 13 years.
When Vivien dies in 1947, and Eliot jilts Emily, she informs him that she will donate all his personal correspondence to Princeton University.
He destroyed her letters, while she donated his to Princeton University, not to be opened for fifty years after the death of both.
Eliot, alarmed, responded with an illuminating three page covering letter, justifying his decisions, revealing a pettiness, unworthy of a great poet.
Eliot separated from Vivienne in 1928, then for a long time, he was in love—chastely, unconsummatedly—with a woman who was not his wife, a woman named Emily Hale. Then, overnight as it seemed, he wasn’t. For 17 years, she in America and he in England, they had been maintaining an intense, and intensely sublimated, attachment. They wrote hundreds of letters. They saw each other infrequently, and behaved, when they did, with appalling propriety
‘I tried to pretend that my love for you was dead, though I could only do so by pretending myself that my heart was dead,’
In 1932, on April 1, Eliot addresses Hale, as:
My dear lady. “Believe that though I am rushed, am not distracted from you in mood.” Early spring and late fall, are the two seasons most “troubling to my equilibrium” and “reviving of memories one must subdue.” Or to put it another way: “April is the cruellest month, breeding / Lilacs out of the dead land, mixing / Memory and desire.”
‘I tried to pretend that my love for you was dead, though I could only do so by pretending myself that my heart was dead,’.
In 1932, responding to a suggestion that they take a holiday together, he writes:
“two people in our position.” They must do nothing, which could raise the slightest suspicion in any mind however vulgar.”, but “age has not abated my passions.”
Emily and Eliot spent the night before she left for America together, with Eliot literally at Hale’s feet.
“I am filled with wretchedness and rejoicing,” he wrote, almost as soon as she was gone, “and when I go to bed I shall imagine you kissing me; and when you take off your stocking you must imagine me kissing your dear dear feet and striving to approach your beautiful saintly soul.”
Hale, by then teaching at Scripps College, was overworked, and her health, although she tried to hide it from Eliot, was faltering. Her neuritis made it difficult for her to write. It wasn’t only Eliot’s insatiable demand for letters that taxed her. She was growing attached to him, and he was still married. From 1931 to 1934, Hale suggested at least five times that Eliot consider divorcing his wife.
Eventually, Hale’s deteriorating health compelled her to take leave from Scripps. Only then did Eliot acknowledge his own hand in her collapse:
“by constantly pressing myself upon your attention, and importuning you with my correspondence, I was really tampering insidiously with your mind.” The melodrama of his self-censure—“I see myself as a blood-sucker”—is especially telling.
Like a vampire, he had not only drawn what he needed out of Hale but also, in the process, transformed her. She was falling in love.
As Eliot admitted to Hale:
“A woman usually wants a husband: some men want a kind of divinity, a sort of human surrogate for the B.V.M. [Blessed Virgin Mary] I have had this.”
Many poets conveniently choose a muse who has already died, who cannot set the terms for her compensation.
Hale wrote that instead of that “anticipated life together which could now rightfully be ours – something too personal … emotional for me to understand decided TSE against marrying me”.
This, Hale continued, “was both a shock and a sorrow”.
“Perhaps I could not have been the companion in marriage he hoped … Perhaps the vision saved both of us from great unhappiness – I cannot ever know.”
When Eliot jilted her in 1948, Emily was treated for a mental break down. She died in 1969.
Emily Hale claims that in 1922 Eliot wrote to her declaring:
“how very much he cared for me; at the time I could return no such feeling”.
She knew his marriage to be “a very unhappy affair”. But she resisted the entreaties of “this gifted, emotional, groping personality”,
writing that she was “dismayed when he confessed after seeing me again that his affection for me was stronger than ever”.
The friendship continued to 1935.
“We saw each other and knew about each other’s lives – though I had no feeling except of difficult and loyal friendship.”
However, Eliot’s commitment to his “mentally ill wife” restricted any further development until his spouse was institutionalized.
Then, from 1935 to 1939, Elliot and Hale began spending summers together in Campden, Gloucestershire. She continued in her account:
“He and I became so close to each other under conditions so abnormal, for I found by now I had in turn grown very fond of him. “We were congenial in so many of our interests, our reactions, and emotional response to each others’ needs – the happiness, the quiet deep bonds between us and our lives, very rich … And the more because we kept the relationship on an honourable, to be respected, plane.”
Hale wrote that:
“only a few – a very few – of his friends and family, and my circles of friends, knew of our care for each other; and marriage, if and when his wife died – couldn’t help but become a desired right of fulfillment”.
By November of 1930, Eliot – now typing – wrote he had been in a “state of torment” for a month.
“You have made me perfectly happy: that is, happier than I have ever been in my life; the only kind of happiness now possible for the rest of my life is now with me; and though it is the kind of happiness which is identical with my deepest loss and sorrow, it is a kind of supernatural ecstasy.”
“I tried to pretend that my love for you was dead, though I could only do so by pretending myself that my heart was dead; at any rate, I resigned myself to celibate old age.”
Describing himself to be in a “kind of emotional fever”, by December he confessed that:
“the pain is more acute, but it is a pain which in the circumstances I would not be without”.
In 1932, responding to a suggestion that they take a holiday together, he writes:
“two people in our position.” They must do nothing, which could raise the slightest suspicion in any mind however vulgar.”, but “age has not abated my passions.”‘
Following Eliot’s decision not to marry her in 1947, Emily’s handwritten draft, in blue pen, in her looped and ladylike hand is formal, gentle, baffled, and quietly devastating in effect.
What came between them after Vivienne’s death was, she writes,
“too personal, too obscurely emotional for me to understand.”
There is a note of quiet defiance:
“The memory of the years when we were most together and so happy are mine always.”
And at the end of it, she turns squarely toward us, in our libraries, shabbily poking through the story.
“I accepted conditions as they were offered under the unnatural code which surrounded us, so that perhaps more sophisticated persons than I will not be surprised to learn the truth about us.” By JAMES PARKER, a staff writer at The Atlantic
Emily endured her break down, but survived.
Dalya Alberge of The Guardian reprinted some of Eliot’s letters to Hale. In one he wrote:
“When I go to bed I shall imagine you kissing me; and when you take off your stocking you must imagine me kissing your dear dear feet and striving to approach your beautiful saintly soul.”
In others he told her that “you have all my love and devotion always”, that he was longing to stroke her “radiantly beautiful” forehead and that he would be “extremely jealous” of any other man who “cared for you as I have”.
Holding out no hope of divorce, Eliot remained married because of his religious faith, yet his letters reflect physical longing. He told Hale:
“I resent, and always shall, every occupation and engagement – except writing verse – that takes my mind from you; yet you are always with me when I wake and when I go to bed, and I stretch out my arms to where you ought to be.”
“There will be so much in existence to give a very false impression of me, and so few clues to the truth. Can I make clear to you my feeling, I wonder. I admit that it is egotistic and perhaps selfish; but is it not natural, when one has had to live in a mask all one’s life, to be able to hope that some day people can know the truth… I have again and again seen the impression I have made, and have longed to be able to cry ‘no you are all wrong about me, it isn’t like that at all’.”
Later, Eliot suggests that he was simply deluded:
“that the letters I had been writing to her were the letters of an hallucinated man.”
Eliot’s dissociation from his earlier self—from the man who wrote to Hale passionately, almost daily, for nearly two decades—epitomizes the strange swerves between intimacy and detachment that characterize his side of their long and fraught relationship.
As James Parker asks:
“The question is not does love exist / But when she leaves, where she goes.” Leonard Cohen?
What’s that—something from Four Quartets? Actually it’s “Secrets,” by Van Halen. But how elegantly it expresses the problem. What happens to the love gone cold? All that madness, transport, froth, projection, communion—where does it go? With the source extinguished, do its beams still travel, like light from a snuffed-out star? Or does it dissipate entirely into unreality?
Inner and lower were the directions modernist writers took literature, toward what goes on inside the head and below the waist. That is certainly how readers experienced modernism, at least, and why the books attracted the censors.
Paul Sartre, Simone Beauvois #
The legend of Simone de Beauvoir—of how an obedient Catholic school girl cast off her rigid, patriarchal upbringing to become the high priestess of existential feminism—is often narrated as a love story. Her biographers trace her escape from the bourgeois Parisian milieu into which she was born, in 1908, first to the Sorbonne and then to the École Normale Supérieure. There, among the “graceless faces” of the agrégation candidates of 1929, she spied Jean-Paul Sartre, twenty-four years old and—as she rhapsodized in “Memoirs of a Dutiful Daughter” (1958), the first of four autobiographical volumes—“still young enough to feel emotional about his future whenever he heard a saxophone playing after his third martini.”
Together, she and her “Playboy,” her “Leprechaun,” as she called him, chased life’s pleasures up the steps of Boulevard du Montparnasse, down the Avenue d’Orléans, and all around the woodland parks of Paris, where her parents had forbidden her and her sister to speak with children outside their social class. Beauvoir’s mother was devoted to the Church and its rigid moralism; her father detested intellectuals and wanted his oldest daughter to “marry a country cousin.” By the time she met Sartre, Beauvoir had different aspirations. “Never have I so loved to read and think, never have I been so alive and happy or envisioned a future so rich. Oh! Jean-Paul, dear Jean-Paul, thank you,” she wrote in her diary.
August 30, 2021, issue, The New Yorker with the headline “Sentimental Education.” by Merve Emre is a contributing writer.
Jean Paul Sartre and Simone De Beauvoir, shared a life of non-exclusive intellectual and sexual companionship. Rather than an open marriage, their pact included “to be one another’s ‘essential love’ with contingent lovers on the side”. Monogamy was vastly over-rated.
Beauvoir wanted:
“a Love that accompanies me through life; not that absorbs my life”.
De Beauvoir lost her teaching position as a result of her “suspicious living arrangements”. Sartre’s position remained safe.
Elizabeth Bishop #
M. Mark of Vasser College writes that Bishop was so ambivalent about homes because of her traumatic childhood when she was made to move homes, passed from parents, to grandparents to various aunts many times before she was seven, making her virtually homeless. Various near fatal sicknesses took their toll creating a sense of loss, dread and anxiety in navigating a modern world without a stable centre.
However, Bishop refuses to dump her emotions on the page by wallowing in self-pity. She wrote many drafts in order to get the precise topography of silence using a colloquial voice allows a light touch to convey hard truths with understated wisdom. Her elegant distillation of emotion is achieved by intimate conversations that shift and drift along effortlessly.
Despite Bishop’s “restraint, calm, and proportion,” she was entering a period when she seemed to be trying to drink herself to death. She spent many years under the care of her psychiatrist.
“When you write my epitaph, you must say I was the loneliest person who ever lived,” Bishop said to Robert Lowell.
Elizabeth Bishop’s life, through her letters, illustrates the consequences of a failure to deal with her issues; symptoms including alcholism, intense, tempestuous but fleeting love affairs, depression and suicidal tendencies. Much of her poetry attempts to exorcise the demons that lurked behind her protective shell, but haunted her entire sorrowful life of accumulated losses.
Elizabeth Bishop’s Art of Losing by Claudia Roth Pierpont unearthed more biographical information from letters, especially to her Psychiatrist in the 1940’s.
Bishop had her first lesbian experience on a train to a summer camp at the age of fourteen.
Her first, of many serious intense relationships was with Marianne Moore (who also carried childhood trauma), largely professional, platonic but obviously love. M.M., as she affectionately called Moore, twenty years older, became her poetic mentor and her mother figure.
This is followed by a number of both male and female affairs lasting from a few years. When she rejected a marriage proposal from a young man, he sent her a postcard: “Go to hell Elizabeth”, before committing suicide.
Her longest and most tragic relationship, lasting some twenty years, was Lota, from Rio.
A highly talented Architect of the ruling class, Lota lost her high powered job due to a political coup, becoming depressed. By this time Bishop had started drinking heavily again and taken another lover. Lota became hysterical, was hospitalised, with Bishop told not to visit.
Bishop returned to America, Lota soon following. Despite an apparent reconciliation, Lota overdosed and later died in hospital.
Due to several harrowing experiences, Bishop drove toward alcoholic self-obliteration. yet at other times displayed a lively, engaging career, charged with vindicating energy.
Another newly disclosed group of letters, from the same source, documents a passionate love affair that Bishop began when she was nearing sixty, with a much younger woman, a relationship that lasted until the poet’s death, at sixty-eight, in 1979. (Bishop’s homosexuality was a carefully kept secret in the homophobic fifties and sixties.)
Her last loss, the young woman she was bound to lose, her attractive blond administrative assistant. It was widely recognised the two were lovers. When Alice announced she was leaving, Bishop’s distress became evident in a suicide attempt and increased alcohol abuse.
But it wasn’t a disaster, after all. Alice returned at winter’s end, and remained with Bishop until she died, of a brain aneurysm, a year and a half later.
Judith Wright and HC ‘Nugget’ Coombs #
Love & Fury (John Hughes, 2013;) concerns the life and works of two remarkable Australians: Judith Wright and HC ‘Nugget’ Coombs. Their clandestine relationship over twenty-five years has been one of the best-kept secrets in Australian literary and political public life. The story of their meeting, their love and their shared passions provides unique insights into the dreams and disappointments of a generation.
They each had enormous ambitions for Australian culture and society; their meeting in the early 1970s – Nugget was 66 and Judith 57 – was at a time of great optimism, when their shared ambitions for a new kind of Australia seemed achievable.
Their relationship was kept secret to protect Coomb’s wife.
Robert Louis Stevenson - Fanny Vandegrift Osbourne #
Robert Louis Stevenson, is the author of Treasure Island, Kidnapped, The Strange Case of Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde,
His father dangled the equivalent of $145,000 if he passed the bar exam, which he did, but he never practiced, choosing instead to hang out with friends, mostly writers and artists far from the parental home in Edinburgh.
Fanny Vandegrift Osbourne was 36, 11 years older than Louis, an American, a wife, and a mother. It is believed that her drive and inspiration fostered the writing in him.
Francis Scott Fitzgerald - Zelda Sayre #
Scott fell in love with a series of rich women who looked down on him. One, whose father rejected him by saying: “Poor boys shouldn’t think of marrying rich girls. “
Zelda Sayre was a southern belle and only married Scott in 1920, after the success of his novel, This Side of Paradise
Zelda was a writer in her own right and provided the creative force. Their lives of soon evolved into a series of wild parties, heavy drinking and carousing. They traveled to Paris, eventually settling in Provence where Zelda met and fell in love with a French Pilot, Jozan. Scott, mad with jealousy locked her up. Later Zelda taunted his lack of success.
Mostly with her knowledge, Fitzgerald also lifted material from Zelda’s letters and diaries. Biographers agree that Zelda “was the dominant influence on Scott’s writing.” Fitzgerald himself admitted, “I don’t know whether Zelda and I are real or whether we are characters in one of my novels.” By the fall of 1924, the Jozan affair had ended, and Fitzgerald was ready to send out the manuscript for The Great Gatsby. He wrote to his editor, “at last I’ve done something really my own.”
By 1930, Zelda suffered a series of mental break downs spending months in expensive mental institutions. Scott increasingly turned to drink and died at the age of 44.
Ernest Hemingway - Martha Gellhorn #
While covering the Spanish Civil War for Collier’s Weekly, in 1937, Martha Gellhorn and Ernest Hemingway became involved. Hemingway dedicated For Whom the Bell Tolls (1940) to her, and they married in 1940 (divorced 1946).
She was his third wife of four. She became a highly recognised war correspondent. In 1944 she impersonated a stretcher bearer to witness the D-Day landings during World War II. Always distrustful of politicians, Gellhorn eloquently championed the cause of the oppressed.
The role of citizens is to penetrate the established version of events and tell unpalatable truths that expose establishment propaganda, or ‘official drivel’. (The Martha Gellhorn Prize for Journalism)
Sylvia Plath - Ted Hughes #
Began with an intense passionate evening, a short courtship, a seven year marriage ending in two children, bitter recrimminations and her suicide in 1963.
More @: https://nebo-lit.com/poetry/hughes/ted-hughes-sylvia-plath.html
Leonard Cohen - Marianne Ihlen #
Leonard Cohen left Canada for London to advance his writing career. Finding the climate dull, grey, cold and dismal, he escaped to the Greek Island of Hydra where he met Marianne Ihlen from Norway. They shared a short passionate affair, before she left for home and he returned to start a musical career in North America.
More @ https://nebo-lit.com/love/marianne-cohen.html
Joan Baez - Bob Dylan #
As folk singers from the early sixties, they became lovers for many years. His break-up song was Don’t Think Twice, It’s alright, while she amicably reponded with Diamonds and Rust.